for some people who never experience a trauma
it must be hard to understand how hard it is go on with life
when the very person who causes the trauma walk around freely
even being praised by the entire world
to some extent, the victim could also question if their experience and feelings are valid
because it feels like they are the only one who can't see the good in perpetrator
while everyone ese is literally head over heals with him
it make them feel confused and alone and miserable
so there is no such thing as standing with the victim
and at the same time caring about the futur of the perpetrator's career
NO, who are you fooling? yourself?
