my 2023's first date - ANDY

exactly today I made a first date again with my tinder match

after all this time since the first date with mas E on bumble match, i dared to meet others again

let's call his name Andy

we matched on the new tinder Thursday, September 14, 2023 yesterday and started a lot of conversation there

at first i swiped him because i saw from his work and his distance to me was close

so i swipe because i'm curious about him too

after that on Saturday, we immediately exchanged whatsapp numbers, because i felt safe, so i already chatted

because i was really traumatized to give my number without checking first in get contact whether it was there or not 

i swear, i'm really tired of meeting scammers or tinder swindlers

and yes, just flow on whatsapp, the conversation until he invited to meet on Tuesday, September 19th

fairly fast, but i'm better moving and meeting quickly so i know how good it will be in the future

before meeting what i like is that he offers many places beforehand, so i just have to choose

decided to meet in Jember and he picked me up, as usual at Zerlin's boarding house

because i felt that if he had to pick me up from Kalisat, it was too far

i was a bit surprised at that time, i was nervous because this was my first date in 2023

afraid of not connecting and i was surprised that he picked me up in such a big car

the beginning was really awkward and i was really that nervous because he was really cute
 

hahaha

PLEASE~ 

i was really nervous because he turned out to be very different from the tinder photo

in tinder photos no beard and looks chubby

the original is really saucy, especially when laughing and wearing glasses, God mleyotttttttt.

exactly what i want, to meet a guy who has a mustache / beard and wears really cute glasses

but this is the first time i'm dating a china mix indo and he's Muslim

widower of 2 children

divorce in 2020

85lines, 38 years old

Aries ~ haha

and also he's really cute, always meet my expectations

i love the way he smiles OMG~ i swear the way he laughs oh my God i love it so much

makes the conversation smooth, he talks a lot about whatever it is his work, his family, his ex-wife

what makes me jiper again is that his bibit, bebet, bobot is OUTSTANDING

he's AMAZE ME

the son of a single mother whose mother and father separated at his age

i like him a lot 

the way he treats me 

the way he respects me by being well-dressed, attractive, smelling good and throughout the conversation there is no cell phone playing at all

he took the occasional drag from his cigarette and vape

i always do eye contact and triangle eye trick that i learned through tiktok :p

because even though we only end up as friends, i want to make the best impression on our first meeting

and sure enough, he always glances and looks like his eyeballs are avoiding my eyes. 

he looked very nervous when i did eye contact and triangle eye trick to him, yes it's works girls haha

i really like the way he laughs 

i like the way he tells stories 

because we were both immersed in the conversation so we had a lot of fun chatting that night

after going home, he texted me that he was grateful and wanted to see me again next time

i said yes and it didn't matter if we were just friends

because i felt i could seek insight from the POV of an adult man who had been married to find my soulmate who would marry me soon 

it's so much fun to talk to people who have a lot of experience, hopefully i'll meet the right person soon and treat me well like i met good people before hehe.
 

thanks for reading